I want to share an immediate thought – I would hope your question might be widened to: ” And what do they have to say to me?”
In every case, the loved ones I have lost, have sent me a message in some way. It requires listening, rather than speaking, but I don’t think people realize this is possible. Over the years, I have lost my frantic need to say that last thing to my lost family, because we are now in constant daily communication. I don’t mean that in an ooooooooo sort of way – but we do never lose each other.
I’ve long felt that our culture completely misses the fact that love cannot die.