The Importance of Anniversary Dates

Written by Braiden on August 18, 2011

Today is the anniversary date of my parents. They were married almost 60 years and my father is still with us to help celebrate and commemorate this very special day.

I was moved by the story of a local Seattle couple who were married for a whopping 74 years, then died just 15 hours apart.

According to the story in The Seattle Times, Bob and Kay Sarver “were together every day of their lives except when he was in the Navy.”

Bob died at age 92; Kay was 93. They married in 1937.

“I never thought of them as individuals. I always thought of them as one,” daughter-in-law Sandy Sarver said. “They were joined at the hip.”

It’s an inspiring story, and a marriage we could all learn a lesson (or three) from.

Cheers to the important anniversaries in all our lives.

Just Say, “I Love You”

Written by Pat Nowak on March 24, 2011

Pat Nowak and her late husband

In thirty seconds, it is all over.

My husband, the major breadwinner in the family, was killed instantly in an auto accident. I never had a chance to say good-bye.

If I had five more minutes I would have say, “I love you,” as we often, in our haste to begin our morning, forgot to.

My family suffered after the death; so many things were left hanging without resolution.

I have learned that it is imperative that we live each day committed to saying, “I love you,” and working in harmony; you never know if there will be a tomorrow.

Editor’s Note: Pat Nowak is the author of “The ABC’s of Widowhood: A Guide to Life After Death.” Visit her online for additional information and to order her book.

 

 

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